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Post by phantomusician on Oct 7, 2006 16:19:01 GMT -5
Good? Bad?
I believe sex is an act of love. You should have sex with someone you love. Forms of contraceptives are fine, because if you prevent things from happening, it's not like killing something that has already occured, or stopping something while its occuring. Condoms don't "kill" babies, because babies haven't been made at all, so therefore there's nothing wrong with using them.
Before marriage: it's hard for a definite answer. I think in most cases, if you're in a good situation (i.e. you break up, you can still successfully raise a child) then it's fine. Otherwise, refrain.
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Post by unknown on Oct 7, 2006 16:23:37 GMT -5
I think premarital sex is wrong.
1st Reason
Lets say that you have a beautiful locket that your grandmother who died gave to you. You wouldn't give that locket to the first person you meet as a gift or something. You'd want to give it to someone special, someone you could trust, someone you loved.
locked=virginity
2nd Reason
Premarital sex is dangerous. Pregnancy, STDs, guilt. You're not married to that person they could leave you in five seconds.
Also if you love eachother you'll wait tell marriage.
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Post by phantomusician on Oct 7, 2006 19:50:10 GMT -5
But what is marriage but a piece of paper that says you are committed to someone? Today, marriage is like a relationship. People divorce as much as teens break up. Marriage means nothing anymore. For those who care, it means a lot. But for many, marriage is just a way for the government to pair people. Marriage=spreading the word that you're in a relationship.
Theeeeerefore, sex is sex. Even if you're married, your spouce could leave you too. Nowadays, it's all the same.
And marriage doesn't erase STD's. So whether or not you're married doesn't effect having/getting STD's.
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Post by phantomusician on Oct 7, 2006 19:50:59 GMT -5
It's a discussion for the gay marriage thread.
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Post by wetmahpants on Oct 7, 2006 23:23:09 GMT -5
Still, I think waiting until after marriage to have sex is a sign of respect. I'm not saying it's WRONG per se, but I'd want to wait 'til after marriage.
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Post by phantomusician on Oct 8, 2006 9:09:43 GMT -5
I'm waiting til after marriage too. I'm just saying, some people make villains out of people who don't choose to, and it gets on my nerves so much.
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Post by wetmahpants on Oct 8, 2006 17:56:36 GMT -5
Yeah, it's not right to hold prejudice against those who don't wait.
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Post by jedichick070588 on Sept 22, 2007 13:11:55 GMT -5
I personally will wait, but if someone loves someone else and they want to, who's to stop them?
The thing I do have a problem with is one-night-stands and affairs. In a one-night-stand the people barley know each other and they'll go their seperate ways the next day and affairs are just wrong.
I do know someone who was a prostitue at the age of 12 or 13 and she now has several STD's and can't have children because of these STD's. What will she tell her future husband if they want kids because she can't have any? She did eventually get out of the job but only because her family was moving to Ohio but it was too late, the damage had already been done.
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